“Sometimes, it’s better to be bitter, bold, and honest than sweet, humble, and fake.”
It is one of the biggest challenges to be yourself and accept the reality many times, especially when it doesn’t favour your expectations. Desires might, unknowingly, lead to unreal expectations and outcomes. While acting according to what you genuinely need will make you see realistic goals. Genuine and innocent people, most of the time, are exploited or criticized. People seldom understand them. However, real people are so rich from the inside out because they enjoy the wealth and satisfaction of being themselves avoiding poor external judgements.
“Either kill your time daydreaming that someone will come and take you to heaven or get up, recognize the real tools you have to make your life worth living.”
Moreover, the even more enormous task is to know what is real and what is not! How to learn if you are being honest or acting out of external influence!. It is simple enough! Don’t be rigid and bind your feelings. Accept the dynamics of relations, circumstances, and aspirations. It is best to be open to possibilities and ready for changes. Here to emphasize is that change should be the real one you decide to adopt, not compelled to be adopted. Once we accept the reality of what we know and need to know, we are ready to move ahead, grow and transform against all odds.
“Buying the shoe faking it fits you just because its external beauty fascinates you will make you lose the race. Because you won’t be able to walk properly, let alone run.”
Your intuition might guide you to believe it against most people saying, but you might avoid it to make someone like you or trust you or because of a lack of confidence and faith in being yourself. However, here you should understand that you only betray yourself and others this way. External influences seize your mind and reality. To be authentic, we need to have a strong belief in ourselves. We must stop comparing negatively one another as we all are individuals, and it is foolish to fake. If you feel self-driven to do something, go for it, whether other people like it or not.
“Better be alone or have few loved ones being real than be with so many people having to fake it every time.”
A natural person might not have many friends, but the few friends they have, are the truest. People of this sort are not afraid of facing any challenge in life. Many of us suppress what we genuinely feel out of the fear of criticism, being mistaken and judged. Doing so might help you short-term and keep you restless long-term.
“The real mistake would not be you tried and failed but would be you believed but did not try.”
Yes, you might make mistakes, but that would make you a better and more learned person. Your guilt and fear of making mistakes should not make you lose yourself, inviting people to make decisions on your behalf. Moreover, who can guarantee that letting people impose themselves upon your life at the cost of your individuality and views, will get everything right!
“It is far better to be slow and find your real path than walking on a fake path just to show you know everything all is fine.”
Some people know their aim early, while some have to try out much to figure it out. Accepting the uncertainty of life and enjoying the journey more than bothering about destiny will help you beat hypocrisy. To learn what you have made for needs you to be patient and honest with yourself at every moment.
In a nutshell, there is no use pretending to be what you are not. It is okay if someone else doesn’t believe and understand you. Moreover, You should not mistake moulding your interests according to demand for being unreal. To understand the reality of ourselves and life quickly and effectively, I want to share some real quotes.
59 Real Quotes To Be And Do What You Feel Inside
- “A failure is not always a mistake, it may simply be the best one can do under the circumstances. The real mistake is to stop trying.” –B. F. Skinner
- “Sadness is a part of life; Love is the heart of life; But facing pain and to come out strong is the real art of life.” –Wrushank Sorte
- “Forget about being impressive and commit to being real. Because being real is impressive!” –Jonathan Harnisch
- “Real is hard to find, and sometimes harder to differentiate. Fakes is acceptable by many, because its takes a lot of strength and courage to be real and more to stay real.” –Annelise Lords
- “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.” –Walter Winchell
- “It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.” –Mahatma Gandhi
- “It’s okay to love something a little too much, as long as it’s real to you.” –Gerard Way
- “Never apologize for what you feel. It’s like saying sorry for being real.” –Lil Wayne
- “Real is better, the truth is better. Painful but better.” –Cath Crowley
- “Wake up to realities! Real life is all about real things!” –Ernest Agyemang Yeboah
- “Real beauty is to be true to oneself. That’s what makes me feel good.” –Laetitia Casta
- “All life demands struggle. Those who have everything given to them become lazy, selfish, and insensitive to the real values of life. The very striving and hard work that we so constantly try to avoid is the major building block in the person we are today.” –Pope Paul VI
- “Respect your efforts, respect yourself. Self-respect leads to self-discipline. When you have both firmly under your belt, that’s real power.” –Clint Eastwood
- “The easiest way to gain someone’s trust is to deserve it. This should be pretty easy, assuming you’re just being you and being real. Minimal effort too.” –Ashly Lorenzana
- “Share your weaknesses. Share your hard moments. Share your real side. It’ll either scare away every fake person in your life or it will inspire them to finally let go of that mirage called “perfection,” which will open the doors to the most important relationships you’ll ever be a part of.” –Dan Pearce
- “If you can be anything, be real.” –Nikki Rowe
- “The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.” –Marcel Proust
- “To give real service you must add something which cannot be bought or measured with money, and that is sincerity and integrity.” –Douglas Adams
- “Nothing ever becomes real till it is experienced.” –John Keats
- “Did I offer peace today? Did I bring a smile to someone’s face? Did I say words of healing? Did I let go of my anger and resentment? Did I forgive? Did I love? These are the real questions. I must trust that the little bit of love that I sow now will bear many fruits, here in this world and the life to come.” –Henri Nouwen
- “The supreme quality for leadership is unquestionably integrity. Without it, no real success is possible, no matter whether it is on a section gang, a football field, in an army, or in an office.” –Dwight D. Eisenhower
- “I am kind of person who will love the real version of you no matter how bad and broken than accepting the perfect and polished but fake version of you.” –Mahrukh
- “So much possibility lives within the beauty of your authenticity. Be real.” –Scott Stabile
- “Each one has to find his peace from within. And peace to be real must be unaffected by outside circumstances.” –Mahatma Gandhi
- “When something serious happens in your life, something bad comes out of it but also something good. You get to see who is real. Who your true friends are, and who truly loves you. ” –Angie Karan
- “Tell people how it is, be real and be honest. If you see something wrong make sure you speak up. Being this way will naturally eliminate the snakes and fakes.” –John Maiorana
- “Be who you are, not who the world wants you to be.” –Unknown
- “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.” –Steve Jobs
- “Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.” –Bruce Lee
- “Monsters are real, and ghosts are real too. They live inside us, and sometimes, they win.” –Stephen King
- “The real man smiles in trouble, gathers strength from distress, and grows brave by reflection.” –Thomas Paine
- “You need to be real enough to be believable, but you don’t necessarily have to be real enough to be real. There is a distinction.” –Bradley Whitford
- “You shouldn’t have to pretend to be as excited as I am just to make me happy. If it comes to that, you shouldn’t have to pretend to be anything around me. Friends should be real with each other” –J.M. Richards
- “And sometimes, even if everything seems unreal a strange force will appear dragging you back the ‘so called’ real.” –A.T. Danielle
- “Entertainment is temporary happiness, but the real happiness is permanent entertainment.” –Amit Kalantri
- “Some things are only real because they represent what we think. When we learn the truth and think it, the old reality is no longer real to us and loses its hold on us. The truth sets us free.” –C. Terry Warner
- “I would rather wear honest tears than the most beautiful and elaborately faked smile.” –Tyler Knott Gregson
- “The strongest force in the universe is a human being living consistently with his identity.” –Tony Robbins
- “And just as you utter these words, I know with unshakable certainty that those few minutes when we walk hand in hand together are, even in a dream, more real and better than anything I’d ever known in life, and that I would be lying if I called what I’ve been doing all these years living.” –André Aciman
- “To be one’s self, and unafraid whether right or wrong, is more admirable than the easy cowardice of surrender to conformity.” –Irving Wallace
- “I prefer a real villain to a false hero.” –Killer Mike
- “When fake news is repeated, it becomes difficult for the public to discern what’s real.” –Jimmy Gomez
- “The real secret of success is enthusiasm.” –Walter Chrysler
- “You carry Mother Earth within you. She is not outside of you. Mother Earth is not just your environment. In that insight of inter-being, it is possible to have real communication with the Earth, which is the highest form of prayer.” –Thich Nhat Hanh
- “I have reached a point in life where I feel it is no longer necessary to try & impress anyone. If they like me the way I am, good & if they don’t, it’s their loss.” –Corazon Aquino
- “You were born an original. Don t die a copy.” –John Mason
- “I feel that the simplicity of life is just being yourself.” –Bobby Brow
- “Learn to… be what you are, and learn to resign with a good grace all that you are not.” –Henri Frederic Amiel
- ”It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not.” –Andre Gide
- “Be what you are. This is the first step toward becoming better than you are.” –Julius Charles Hare
- “True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding.” –Ellen G. White
- “What we have is often more important than what we will have simply because what we have is real!” –Mehmet Murat Ildan
- “If people don’t appreciate your Real self, it’s hard to be with them, but you only find True friends by Showing that self & Trusting.” –Jay Woodman
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